“You never know what’s around the corner. It could be everything. Or it could be nothing. You keep putting one foot in front of the other, and then one day you look back and you’ve climbed a mountain.”
We all have choices in life. Different paths we could take which will ultimately determine our destiny. Every second of every day we all have to make a decision which has a domino effect on not only our own well-being but on those around us. Makes you think, doesn’t it? In the past few weeks I have spoken about Existentialism, where the individual’s starting point is characterized by what has been called “the existential attitude”, or a sense of disorientation and confusion in the face of an apparently meaningless or absurd world.
So, when someone asks why I am on my way to watch Arundel v Pagham in the Sussex County League at 11am on Bank Holiday Monday, that is the answer I give. My choice today was to avoid shopping centres, DIY stores and doing “chores” around the house. Instead I headed down to Sussex for a double bill of football, starting with a visit to one of the most picturesque little towns in the whole of the UK.
Arundel is famous for its Cathedral, its castle, the beautiful cricket ground and its mullets, the name given to the locals of the due to their love of German 1980’s rock music. The football club, adopting the nickname of the townsfolk were formed back in 1889, making them one of the oldest clubs in these parts. Miss Success hasn’t been a regular visitors to these parts – in fact the club have never made it out of the County Leagues. But sometimes it is more important to play in the right spirit rather than having a win at all cost mentality. Well, that’s what teams that never win anything always say.
Those terribly nice chaps at the Sussex FA once again delivered a treat for the Bank Holiday with all of their games kicking off at 11am, meaning that today was a Sussex footballing fest featuring not just one Sussex derby as Arundel faced Pagham but at 3pm was THE biggest game in the county of the season. Lewes versus Bognor Regis Town. If Brian Moore and The Big Match were still around, they would have undoubtably been at The Dripping Pan, delivering platitudes about the “renaissance” of football in East Sussex and the “wonderful revolution” taking place under the stewardship of Messrs. Wilson and Bloor.
We came in search of goals with the Mulletts so far this season being involved in games averaging over five goals a game, scoring 10 goals themselves. Almost a cast iron guarantee for a nil nil draw then. It hasn’t seemed like the locals had caught the footballing bug yet with just 42 souls braving the torrential rain on Saturday in the 4-1 win against Hailsham Town. I’m sure the early kick off would have the locals coming out in droves though for this game. Or perhaps they had made the dull choice of shopping/DIY or chores. Continue reading